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Cara's Corner
This November, Americans will elect the next President of the United States. No matter who you vote for, The Center wants to make sure your voice heard. Your power is in your vote! The deadline to register to vote - or re-register, if you've moved, changed political parties, or want to vote by mail - is October 24. Register here Events.thecentersd.org/vote and be an #EqualityVoter. If you want to help The Center remind others to vote in this election, contact Rebekah at rhook@thecentersd.org to join our voting outreach team this fall and get out the vote!

In the Know with Ian
Thank you for a wonderful AIDS Walk & Run San Diego! It was a gorgeous day full of amazing people gathering to support all those affected by HIV and working to #BeTheGeneration to put an end to new cases of HIV in San Diego County. We can't thank you enough! And don't worry - if you missed the big day but would still like to contribute, we’ll gratefully accept all donations through Friday, Oct. 7 at www.aidswalksd.org.

You Should Know

Wednesday, Oct. 5, 5:30pm, Senior Housing Informational Session
Looking for more info about the new senior housing development? Be sure to attend the next information session at The Center on Oct. 5 from 5:30-7pm. For more information contact LaRue Fields at seniors@thecentersd.org or 619.692.2077 x205. Visit the FAQ page at >>> http://chworks.org/real-estate-development/current-projects/north-park-seniors.

Friday, Sept. 30, 8pm, Out Night at San Diego Repertory Theatre Supports Latin@ Services
20% of single ticket purchases for the September 30, 8pm performance of San Diego Repertory Theatre's fantastic 'Manifest Destinitis' show will benefit Latin@ Services @ The Center! Purchase your tickets HERE.


Tell Us What You Think!
At the Center, we have always valued the input of the community and we are always looking to make sure we're providing great services for years to come. We invite you to fill out this quick survey to let us know how we're doing. Thanks!

Your Vote Matters
Our community can’t afford to sit out this election! Register and pledge to vote at events.thecentersd.org/vote. Presidential Election: Nov. 8

Spotlight Events

Tuesday, Sept. 27 & Oct. 11, 9:30am, Free Legal Clinic
The Access to Law Initiative, a project of California Western School of Law, holds legal clinics the second and fourth Tuesdays of each month from 9:30am to 11:30am at The Center. At these clinics, attorneys will be available for free, 30-minute consultations to help evaluate legal issues. No appointment is required. For more information, call 619.692.2077.

Tuesday, Sept. 27, 7:30pm, Young Men's Discussion Group
Connect to The Center and the community. Join other 18-35 year olds to talk about relationships, sexual health, activism, community building and more. The young men's group meets at The Center on the 4th Tuesday of the month at 7:30 pm. For more information, contact Aaron Heier at 619.692.2077 x211, or aheier@thecentersd.org.

Wednesday, Sept. 28 & Oct. 12, 7pm, FTM/Trans Male and SOFFA Support Groups
Join the guys from 7-9 pm in this support group for male-identified, questioning or self-identifying on the male spectrum folks who were assigned female at birth. Significant others are invited on the 2nd Wednesday of every month to meet with the group and on the 4th Wednesday of every month to join the trans allies group, also at 7pm. For more information, contact Connor Maddocks at trans@thecentersd.org or 619.692.2077 x109.

Friday, Sept. 30, 9:30am, Children's Playgroup @ The Center
Join us at The Center from 9:30-11:30am on the last Friday of every month for our children's play group. This group gives children ages 0-5 the chance to socialize and participate in educational opportunities that enhance their sensory skills. Both formal and informal activities will be available. Parents will also have the chance to socialize and network with other LGBT parents. For more information, contact us at families@thecentersd.org.

Program Activities: Youth, Seniors, Families, Men, Women, HIV Community and More

Free Testing at The Center
Free HIV and HCV (Hepatitis C) testing is available at The Center Monday-Friday 9am-8pm (last test at 7pm) and Saturday 10am-2pm (last test at 1pm). On Fridays only, the early test is available 12 noon-4pm (last test at 3pm) and couples testing is available 4-9pm (last test at 8pm). For more information, call 619.692.2077 x101.

Mondays, 7pm, Women's Discussion Group
Join us in room 201 for an open discussion group for LBT women to talk about a variety of subjects, including relationships, school, work, family, friends and any other topics of interest. For more information, email women@thecentersd.org.

Mondays, 7pm, Transgender Coming Out Group
This group meets on Mondays, 7-8:30 pm, and supports transgender people in all stages of exploring gender identity. Open to transgender women (MTF), transgender men (FTM), genderqueer/gender non-conforming people, people who are intersex and those questioning their gender identity. SOFFAs (significant others, friends, family, allies) are welcome to attend with their transgender loved ones. For more information, contact Connor at trans@thecentersd.org or 619.692.2077 x109.

Mondays and Wednesdays, 1 pm, Feeling Fit Club
The Feeling Fit Club meets Mondays and Wednesdays from 1-2 pm in the Auditorium. This class for older adults helps to improve balance, strength and flexibility to help maintain independence. It's suitable for all levels - exercises can be done sitting or standing. To sign up, just attend class. For more information, contact LaRue Fields at 619.692.2077 x205 or seniors@thecentersd.org.

Tuesdays, 4:30-7:30pm, HYC Hours for 10-13 Year Olds
The Hillcrest Youth Center is a youth-only LGBTQ+ space that is open for 10-13 year olds every Tuesday night from 4:30-7:30pm. You'll find computer access, health education, basic financial education, youth leadership training, discussion groups, creative and performing arts programming, amazing social activities and more. In addition, Tuesday nights will include structured activities such as group games, arts and crafts and mini LGBTQ workshops and discussions. For more information, email HYC@thecentersd.org.

Martes, 6:30pm, Grupo de Apoyo Mujeres con Orgullos
Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres lesbianas y bisexuales - platicas, eventos sociales y actividades. Todos los Martes a 6:30-8pm. Para mas informacion, por favor pongase en contacto con Ricardo Gallego al 619.692.2077 x116, latinos@thecentersd.org.

Wednesdays, 12 noon, Shades of Color
Join us at The Center every Wednesday from 12 noon to 1:30pm for Shades of Color, an empowerment group for Black men (MSM).The group covers a variety of topics, including dating, healthy relationships, spiritual awareness, living with HIV and more. For more information, contact Ricardo Gallego at 619.692.2077 x116 or rgallego@thecentersd.org.

Wednesdays, 7pm, Women's Coming Out Group
This group supports women who are straight, gay, bi, trans or questioning in coming out and being out. For more information, email women@thecentersd.org.

Miércoles, 6:30 pm, Grupo de Apoyo Las Manzanitas
Las Manzanitas es un grupo de apoyo LGBT que provee información y apoyo para los que viven infectados/afectados por el VIH. No es necesario ser VIH+ para participar. El grupo se reúne semanalmente cada Miércoles de 6:30 a 9pm y se proveen bocadillos. Amigos y parientes de la comunidad LGBT son bienvenidos el ultimo Miércoles del mes. Para más información, por favor póngase en contacto con Rogelio Sanchez al 619.203.5125 or rsmoa@sbcglobal.net.

Thursdays, 12 noon, Touch of Love
Project TRANS invites you to join Miss Pepper Price every Thursday from noon to 1 pm for a daytime support group for Trans identified folks. For more information, contact Connor Maddocks at trans@thecentersd.org or call 619.692.2077 x109.

Thursdays, 7pm, Trans Military & Veterans Support Group
Meet other veterans and active duty Trans folks to support and share resources for smoother transitions within the military and VA. This is a great place to share your hopes and struggles. The group meets at The Center every Thursday at 7pm. For more information, contact Connor Maddocks at trans@thecentersd.org or call 619.692.2077 x109.

Thursdays, 7pm, Men's Coming Out Group
Join this discussion group for men who are gay, bi, straight, trans or questioning for support in coming out and being out. For more information email mcogsd@gmail.com.

Fridays, 3pm, Free HIV Testing at Hillcrest Youth Center
Free HIV testing is available for youth 14-18 at the Hillcrest Youth Center on Fridays from 3-5pm, before we open the youth center for the night. For more information or to make an appointment, contact us at 619.497.2920 or hyc@thecentersd.org.

Viernes, 6pm, Grupo de Apoyo Transgenero 2000
Este grupo se lleva a cabo de 6pm a 8pm, es un grupo abierto a familias, amigos y personas que quieran comprender y dar apoyo a personas transgenero, en este grupo se dan diferentes temas educativos y tambien las chicas comparten sus experiencias de la vida. Para más información, por favor póngase en contacto con Ricardo Gallego al 619.692.2077 x116, latinos@thecentersd.org.

Saturdays, 10:45am, Healing Yoga for Trans Folks and Friends 
This class is free and open to Trans folks and allies. Class begins at 10:45 and is taught by Christine Taylor, who has generously donated her time. Healing Yoga teachings are derived from the self-empowering practices of yoga, utilizing a wide range of tools to help enhance well-being and health. For more information contact Connor Maddocks at trans@thecentersd.org or 619.692.2077 x109.

Tuesdays & Thursdays, Sept. 20-Oct.13, 3pm, Basic Computer Class
This four-week basic computer class meets from 3-5pm in the Cyber Center on Tuesdays and Thursdays and is free to seniors who are 62+. Seniors in the basic computer class will learn the anatomy of a computer, desktop (i.e. file management and basic navigation skills), the internet (i.e. browser vs. search engine), and email. For more information, contact LaRue Fields at 619.692.2077 x205 or seniors@thecentersd.org.

Tuesday, Sept. 27, 6pm, LGBT Military Support Group
The Center and Fleet and Family Support Services are excited to provide this support/education group for LGBT active duty service members. The group meets the 4th Tuesday of every month from 6-7:30 and is for both individuals and couples with or without children. For more information, contact Caroline Bender at 619.222.5586 or caroline.bender.ctr@navy.mil.

Tuesday, Sept. 27 & Oct. 11, 9:30am, Free Legal Clinic
The Access to Law Initiative, a project of California Western School of Law, holds legal clinics the second and fourth Tuesdays of each month from 9:30am to 11:30am at The Center. At these clinics, attorneys will be available for free, 30-minute consultations to help evaluate legal issues. No appointment is required. For more information, call 619.692.2077.

Tuesday, Sept. 27 & Oct. 11, 11:30am, Creative Writing
This is a fun relaxed writing group open to all. It takes place on the 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month. Each class will cover a writing topic at the beginning of the session and then write to a writing prompt for several minutes. Then everyone will share their work and give feedback. For more information, contact LaRue Fields at seniors@thecentersd.org.

Tuesday, Sept. 27, 1pm, Senior Food Bank
The Senior Food Bank Program provides food and nutrition education to eligible low-income seniors 60 years or older on the 4th Tuesday of the month.  Eligible applicants can enroll in the program by applying in person at our site on the day of the event or call the Jacobs & Cushman San Diego Food Bank at 866.350.3663. For more information, visit the San Diego Food Bank website at www.sandiegofoodbank.org or contact LaRue Fields at seniors@thecentersd.org or 619.692.2077 x205.

Tuesday, Sept. 27 & Oct. 11, 6:30pm, Prostate Cancer Support Group Serving the Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Communities
This group meets on the 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 6:30pm. Please contact William Shi at prostatecancergbt@aol.com before attending for the first time.

Tuesday, Sept. 27, 7:30pm, Young Men's Discussion Group
Connect to The Center and the community. Join other 18-35 year olds to talk about relationships, sexual health, activism, community building and more. The young men's group meets at The Center on the 4th Tuesday of the month at 7:30 pm. For more information, contact Aaron Heier at 619.692.2077 x211, or aheier@thecentersd.org.

Wednesday, Sept. 28 & Oct. 12, 7pm, FTM/Trans Male Support Group
Join the guys from 7-9 pm in this support group for male-identified, questioning or self-identifying on the male spectrum folks who were assigned female at birth. Significant others are invited on the 2nd Wednesday of every month to meet with the group and on the 4th Wednesday of every month to join the trans allies group, also at 7pm. For more information, contact Connor Maddocks at trans@thecentersd.org or 619.692.2077 x109.

Wednesday, Sept. 28 & Oct. 12, 7pm, Significant Others and Allies of Trans Folks Discussion Group
This group meets on the 2nd and 4th Wednesdays monthly, and is for anyone who is a significant other, friend, family member or needs support around someone close to them regarding transgender issues. For more information, please contact Connor Maddocks at trans@thecentersd.org or 619.692.2077 x109.

Friday, Sept. 30, 9:30am, Children's Playgroup @ The Center
Join us at The Center from 9:30-11:30am on the last Friday of every month for our children's play group. This group gives children ages 0-5 the chance to socialize and participate in educational opportunities that enhance their sensory skills. Both formal and informal activities will be available. Parents will also have the chance to socialize and network with other LGBT parents. For more information, contact us at families@thecentersd.org.

Tuesday, Oct. 4, 7pm, Bi Coming Out Group - Date Change October Only
Join The Center's discussion group on bisexuality from 7-8:30pm on Tuesday, Oct. 4. The group normally meets on the third Wednesday of every month and will return to this schedule in November. It's a welcoming space to share your experiences, ask questions, discuss community issues and meet like-minded people. This group is open to all persons who are sexually and/or emotionally attracted to more than one gender. For more information, contact Aaron Heier at aheier@thecentersd.org.

Tuesday, Oct. 4, 9am, Community Food Bank
The San Diego LGBT Community Center hosts a distribution site once a month for the Community Cares Project of the San Diego Food Bank. On the first Tuesday of every month, 9-10:30am, visit The Center's parking lot for emergency food. For more information, visit the San Diego Food Bank website at www.sandiegofoodbank.org.

Tuesday, Oct. 4, 7pm, Bi Coming Out Group
Join The Center's discussion group on bisexuality from 7-8:30pm on the third Wednesday of every month. (PLEASE NOTE: the Bi Coming Out Group will meet on a different night next month - Tuesday, Oct. 4 at 7pm.) It's a welcoming space to share your experiences, ask questions, discuss community issues and meet like-minded people. This group is open to all persons who are sexually and/or emotionally attracted to more than one gender. For more information, contact Aaron Heier at aheier@thecentersd.org.

Tuesday, Oct. 4 & 18, 7pm, Trans Women’s Open Discussion Group
The Trans women’s open discussion group is now meeting on the first and third Tuesday of every month from 7-8:30pm. The group is open to those assigned male at birth and now identifying as female, gender non-conforming or questioning their gender, as well as allies. Topics focus on issues affecting women and transgender people. For more information, contact Connor at 619.692.2077 x109 or trans@thecentersd.org.

Wednesday, Oct. 5, 5:30pm, Senior Housing Informational Session
Looking for more info about the new senior housing development? Be sure to attend the next information session at The Center on Oct. 5 from 5:30-7pm. For more information contact LaRue Fields at seniors@thecentersd.org or 619.692.2077 x205, Visit the FAQ page at >>> http://chworks.org/real-estate-development/current-projects/north-park-seniors.

Wednesday, Oct. 5 & 19, 12 noon, Diamonds in the Rough: Etiquette with Miss Pepper
Project TRANS invites you to join Miss Pepper Price every other Wednesday for a fun and informative class on etiquette designed especially for trans women. The group meets from 12 noon-1:30pm in Latino Services. For more information, contact Connor Maddocks at trans@thecentersd.org or 619.692.2077 x109.

No October Guys, Games & Grub
The October edition of Guys, Games & Grub, originally scheduled for Wednesday, Oct. 5, will be postponed due to another important event taking place in the space that evening. GGG is a fun, monthly social event that is popular in the community, and we apologize for the schedule change. Keep an eye on this newsletter and the Men @ The Center Facebook page for details on a special late October social event for The Men @ The Center community. The next regularly scheduled GGG is on for Tuesday, Nov. 2 from 6-8:30 pm in The Center’s Auditorium. For more information call 619.692.2077 or e-mail men@thecentersd.org.

Wednesday, Oct. 5, 7pm, Ladies, Laughter and Literature: L3
This monthly book club is for like-minded women who love to dive into various types of literature and share thoughts, concerns and laughs! Join this group of book worms in the community resource room at 7 pm on the 1st Wednesday of every month. Books are selected each month by popular vote. For more information, email women@thecentersd.org, call 619.692.2077 x212 or look us up on Facebook.

Thursday, Oct. 6, 12 noon, Senior Advisory Committee Meeting
The Coordinator of Senior Services facilitates this group of senior community members who provide input on the 50 & Better Together program. These meetings are for anyone interested in senior services at The Center. For more information, contact LaRue Fields at seniors@thecentersd.org or 619.692.2077 x205.

Thursday, Oct. 6 & 20, 7:30pm, Non-Binary Gender Identity and Exploration
This is a discussion and support group for non-binary, genderqueer and gender non-conforming individuals. Anyone who identifies with any part of the non-binary gender spectrum or anyone questioning/exploring their gender identity is welcome to join. Group facilitators bring topics of discussion while leaving plenty of space for group members to steer the conversation where they would like it to go. This group also serves as a social gathering space for non-binary individuals, and casual social interaction is integrated with more structured discussion. The group meets on the 1st and 3rd Thursdays monthly, from 7:30 – 8:45pm at The Center. For more information, contact David Vance at dvance@thecentersd.org or 619.692.2077 x109.

Saturday, Oct. 15, 11am, Transgender Community Picnic
Join us at Balboa & Park on Saturday, Oct. 15 from 11am-3pm for the annual transgender community picnic. All are invited to Balboa Park for a potluck style picnic - so bring something to share! FOr more information, contact Connor at trans@thecentersd.org or619.692.2077 x109.

Tuesday,Oct. 18, 6:30pm, Project Trans Advisory Committee
Be part of the planning process for the Project Trans program. Bring your ideas, thoughts and suggestions. Meets on the third Tuesday of every month. For more information, contact Connor Maddocks at trans@thecentersd.org.

Tuesday, Oct. 18, 7:30pm, Young Women's Discussion Group
Join other young women ages 18-30 on the third Tuesday of every month to discuss academics, careers, relationships, politics, social media, pop culture, community building, activism and ways to be more involved in the LGBT community. Meet like-minded people and share your experiences as a member of the LGBT community. For more information, contact Aaron Heier at 619.692.2077 x211, or aheier@thecentersd.org.

Tuesday, Oct. 25, 1pm, Senior Food Bank
The Senior Food Bank Program provides food and nutrition education to eligible low-income seniors 60 years or older on the 4th Tuesday of the month.  Eligible applicants can enroll in the program by applying in person at our site on the day of the event or call the Jacobs & Cushman San Diego Food Bank at 866.350.3663. For more information, visit the San Diego Food Bank website at www.sandiegofoodbank.org or contact LaRue Fields at seniors@thecentersd.org or 619.692.2077 x205.

Tuesday, Nov. 2, 6pm, Guys, Games & Grub 
Guys, Games & Grub, presented by Men @ The Center and Hillcrest Social, is a fun, free monthly social event designed for men - where everyone is welcome. Dozens of men gather at The Center on the first Wednesday of each month for free pizza, beer, wine, soft drinks, games, prizes, and more. Also, check out the popular Live Trivia game (starting at 6:30 pm), hosted each month by community favorite John Lockhart. A donation of $5 is suggested at the door to support men's programming at The Center. Bring friends or come alone and meet new friends! For more information, contact Aaron Heier at aheier@thecentersd.org or 619.692.2077 x211.

Partner Spotlight



PEP - (Post-Exposure Prophylaxis) Another tool in the tool box against HIV

ACCIDENTS HAPPEN!
If you think you've been exposed, head to any emergency room or urgent care center and ask for PEP within 3 days! PEP (Post-Exposure Prophylaxis) can prevent HIV from making copies of itself and turning into infection if taken within 72 hours.

PrEP - Get Educated

"I think it's time we face the truth about the unjust world we live in," she said. "The truth is we have every tool we need to prevent the spread of HIV...The real reason we haven't beaten this epidemic boils down to one simple fact: We value some lives more than others. We value men more than women. Straight love more than gay love. White skin more than black skin. The rich more than the poor. Adults more than adolescents. I know this because AIDS does not discriminate on its own.” READ MORE...

Check out our list of San Diego medical professionals who provide PrEP (Pre Exposure Prophylaxis). We recommend that you call before making an appointment to confirm details such as insurance coverage. Know a provider who should be added to this list? Contact us at outreach@thecentersd.org. View the list here.

Want your own Center #BeTheGeneration shirt?

Just make a $20 minimum donation to benefit The Center's #HIV/AIDS services. Donate today to help us end new cases of HIV/AIDS!

What is TasP?

Treatment as prevention (TasP) refers to HIV prevention methods that use antiretroviral treatment (ART) to decrease the risk of HIV transmission. Read Prizila's story and join us to #BeTheGeneration that ends new HIV infections.

Follow Us!

Be sure to follow The Center on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter for more #LGBT news around the world, special events, news from The Center, and happenings around the community! Find us on Instagram and Twitter at LGBTCenter, on YouTube at LGBTCenterSD and on Facebook at facebook.com/At.The.Center.

Community Events
Tuesday, Sept. 27, ADL Special Event - The Megan Phelps-Roper Story!
The Westboro Baptist Church is infamous for their hatred of Jews, the LGBT community, the U.S. military, and pretty much everyone in the world. Megan Phelps-Roper is the granddaughter of the cult’s founder, Fred Phelps. The Anti-Defamation League is bringing her to San Diego to tell her story of leaving behind her family and everything that she knew. It is harrowing and powerful beyond words, and the message of acceptance, peace and love that she spreads today is nothing short of remarkable. Join the ADL for this special event.For tickets and additional information, visit https://www.eventbrite.com/e/adl-presents-turning-points-the-megan-phelps-roper-story-tickets-27290435427.

Friday, Sept. 30, 7pm, POZative Guided Meditation
POZabilities invites community members living with and affected by HIV to take a break, quiet their mind, and reduce stress and anxiety at POZative Guided Meditation. The group will start on Friday, Sept. 30 at 7 pm at The Center in Room 201, and be held every Friday following from 7-8pm. For more information contact Rob Rodrigus at 818.720.2709. To RSVP, e-mail poz@pozabilities.org or 619.241.8538.

Friday, Sept. 30, 8pm, Out Night at San Diego Repertory Theatre Supports Latin@ Services
20% of single ticket purchases for the September 30, 8pm performance of San Diego Repertory Theatre's 'Manifest Destinitis' Show will benefit Latin@ Services @ The Center! Purchase your tickets HERE.

Saturday, Oct. 15, 5pm, National Latino AIDS Awareness Day Memorial at St. Paul's Cathedral
Join St. Paul's Cathedral on Saturday, October 15, the last day of Hispanic Heritage Month in the United States, as they observe National Latino AIDS Awareness Day with a memorial service for all those lives impacted by HIV/AIDS. The event will be help from 5-7pm at the cathedral, 2728 Sixth Ave.

Report School Bullying!
San Diego Unified School District has a new online bullying reporting system. Search "bullying" on your school's website or visit the link at https://www.sandiegounified.org/forms/online-bullying-reporting-form.

Update Your Info

We want to make sure we get the details right! If you're moving, changing your email, or if we got your contact info wrong, let us know! You can update everything online here or contact us at 619.692.2077 x107 or vcosio@thecentersd.org if you'd like us to do it for you.

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