Family Matter's eNewsletter

September 2007
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Fun Events for You & Your Family!

BIG Annual Family Summer BBQ
Sunday, September 16th 11:00 - 3:00 pm

Join us for our BIGGEST event of the year! We will have a full day of activities for you and your family with clowns, face painters, jumps, slides, climbing wall and good food.

Registration information is available at www.thecentersd.org/familyBBQ. Mark the date on your calendar and buy your tickets on-line today and tell your extended family and friends to come also. This is a great event to bring Grandma & Grandpa too so they can show off their grandkids and meet other families like theirs.       

Business owners: We still need several more sponsors.   Get your name out and support our families, see the link above for sponsorship opportunities they are going fast so check them out today!  You can share the cost of a sponsorship with another business if you want.  This is our biggest event of the year and where you will get the most exposure to offer your services to our families.

VOLUNTEERS NEEDED:

We need 15 more volunteers to help with this event.  Please contact Marci ASAP if you want to volunteer at mbair@thecentersd.org   This is a great way to give back, meet new people, get involved and have fun!

 

BBQ BBQ2

 

New Infant & Toddler Playgroup Starts in South Park!

Saturday, September 8th from 10:00 am - Noon will kick off our South Park Infant & Toddler Playgroup at Lyric's Daycare.  This group will meet the 2nd Saturday of each month at this time and location.

This home daycare was opened by Lyric's mom's to allow them to spend more time with their son and give the LGBT community an open and welcoming space for childcare in a comfortable home setting.

We think this is a great fit at this new location to allow the parents a comfortable space to socialize and the kids a great safe place to play.

This location is great for infants through kids around 5 years old - so feel free to bring siblings along.

For more information and directions, contact either Jeane or Tin-Lok at 619.501.2575 or email them at lyricsdaycare@yahoo.com 

Lyric's Daycare
1787 Pentuckett Avenue
San Diego, CA 92104

Check out our Website  and the calendar for when and where each of the playgroups meet.  We now have groups meeting in North County and various places in San Diego at different times and different age groups. This is a great way to connect with other parents.


Big Kids

Photo of "Big Kid" Playgroup at Balboa Park - meets the 2nd Saturday of the month
Considering Parenthood?
Saturday, September 15th 10:00 am - 11:30 am
 
Don't have kids yet?  Join other singles and couples who are exploring creating or adding to their families.  This group meets every other month as a support group to educate the members on adoption, surrogacy, insemination or co-parenting.  Many of our members have successfully "graduated" from this group and are parents now and loving every day!
 
Meetings are held every other month on a Saturday at The Center, 3909 Centre Street in San Diego.  Please view our calendar of events for exact meeting date.
 
Get involved! Please feel free to attend any and all of our events even if you don't have kids yet.  Volunteer - get to know people!  Join us for our BBQ on September 16th, contact Marci at mbair@thecentersd.org if you want to volunteer and get connected.

 

 

Kids Self Esteem Parent Workshop
Wednesday, September 19th 6:00 - 8:00 pm
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The Center & Family Matters to offer an Educational Forum for LGBT Parents

Join Dr. Heather Berberet as she speaks to us about improving the self-esteem of our children. This discussion will take place on Wed., September 19th from 6-8pm at The Center, 3909 Centre St .

Dr. Berberet will help us improve our children's self esteem. She will teach us how we feel about our own self esteem impacts our children, and how to improve our self esteem and how to mirror positive self esteem to our kids.

The meeting is free and open to the public. Child care will be provided if required, by registering by Mon., September 17th . For more information or to request child care, please contact Marci Bair at (619) 692-2077, ext. 121 or at mbair@thecentersd.org.

 

North County Pride
Saturday, October 13th Noon - 5:00 pm

LGBT Pride in North County. Join others in North County at Stagecoach Park in Carlsbad from 12 - 5 pm. This family friendly event will feature a clown, face painting, food, live bands - show your Pride in the North County and meet other families that live near you.

Vendors Wanted! If you have a business and you want to promote yourself in North County you should have a table.  For a vendor application or more information check out the website at 
www.NorthCountyPrideSD.org

 

AIDS Walk San Diego
Sunday, September 30th

Join Family Matters and The Center for the 33rd Annual AIDS Walk San Diego, being held in beautiful Balboa Park on Sunday, September 30. The program begins at 7am with the Walk kicking off at 8am. This is a great community event to take the kids to. Please join The Center's team at www.aidswalksd.org or call (619) 291-WALK.

AIDS Walk San Diego

PALM SPRINGS ANNUAL FAMILY WEEKEND!
Friday, October 5th - Sunday, October 7th

Register now - this event will sell out!
Family Pride in the Desert
7th Annual Gathering for LGBT Families Friday,
Oct. 5 & Sunday, Oct. 7, 2007 - Palm Springs, California


There's no better way to spend Columbus Day Weekend than with other LGBT families at the beautiful Shiloh Inn Suites Hotel in Palm Springs, CA! Join us in the desert again this October for an exciting and family-friendly weekend! This year's special events include

  • family meals
  • pool time fun
  • parent advocacy workshop
  • family pajama party and movie night
  • plenty of laid-back time to spend meeting and sharing with other LGBT families

Sound like a dream? Make it a reality! To register your family for this event, and for information about accommodations, please visit  Family Pride in the Desert to register.
* Be sure to book your room ASAP the rooms will sell out.
We will list other hotels nearby once the Shilo sells out. Sponsored by Family Pride. In collaboration with the L.A. Gay & Lesbian Center's Family Services Program, The Pop Luck Club, Family Matters/The San Diego LGBT Community Center and COLAGE. Funded in part by First 5 LA for children 0-5 and their families

All meals for the weekend and activities are included in the low registration fee!

 

 

Save the Date for these other great events

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Sat., Oct. 27th - Nightmare on Normal Street & The Family Matters Halloween Carnival & Costume Contest

Check out The whole LGBT Community Calendar to stay connected.

 

The San Diego LGBT Community Center Launches Marriage Equality Speakers Bureau


  

The San Diego   LGBT  Center’s Marriage Equality and Education Project has launched its Marriage Equality Speaker’s Bureau, designed to educate Californians about the importance of every committed couple having access to marriage. 

The Center’s Marriage Equality Speakers are a diverse, educated and passionate group who are available to speak at community groups, organizations and classes throughout San Diego County.

Having a Marriage Equality Speaker is a great addition to any group’s weekly meetings, events or functions. The speakers will provide overview on the current marriage equality landscape, why marriage equality is important to them and ways the public can get involved.

For more information, or to schedule a speaker for an upcoming event, please contact Kristi Shaw at (619) 692-2077, ext. 206 or kshaw@thecentersd.org.


California Marriage Equality Update


Discriminatory Ballot Measures

Though marriage equality advocates successfully kept discriminatory constitutional amendment measures off California ballots in 2006, anti-LGBT forces have not halted their efforts to write such discrimination into our state’s constitution.

 

Opponents of equality currently have four discriminatory initiatives cleared through the Secretary of State’s office for signature gathering for the 2008 elections, including one which would not only ban marriage for same-sex couples, but would also repeal California’s existing domestic partnership protections and obligations. The four measures have been filed by two different extremist organizations, including one led by the widow of former State Senator Pete Knight, author of California’s anti-LGBT Proposition 22, which voters passed in 2000.

 

Both groups are actively engaged in efforts to raise the money needed to collect enough signatures by December of this year to qualify for the 2008 ballot. The marriage equality movement in California must be even more active and more engaged in order to deny them a victory in our state. A loss for our community in California will be a major setback for our community, not only here, but throughout the nation.

 

Starting today, there are specific things you can do to take action against this effort to permanently enshrine discrimination into the California Constitution.

 

  1. Get involved with The Center’s Marriage Equality and Education Project. To do so, contact Kristi Shaw at (619) 692-2077, ext. 206 or kshaw@thecentersd.org. There are a number of ways to reach out, speak out and make a different through this project.

 

  1. Get involved with the “Let California Ring” coalition, and contribute to its efforts to change hearts, minds and votes throughout the state. Learn more and give online at www.letcaliforniaring.org.

 

  1. Engage (or re-engage) in this struggle. Talk about these efforts with your family, your friends, your co-workers. If you are part of an organization, talk to your fellow members, write about it in your newsletters, etc. Make sure those who know and care about you know the truly damaging impact of this type of measure.

 

The Center's Marriage Equality and Education Project is working hard to end discrimination.

Will you join us?

Contact Kristi Shaw, Marriage Equality and Education Project Coordinator:

Physical Space: 3909 Centre Street Cyber Space: http://www.thecentersd.org

Snail Mail: P.O. Box 3357, San Diego, CA 92163 Email: kshaw@thecentersd.org
Phone: (619) 692-2077x 206 Fax: (619) 718-6467

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Family Matters @ The Center at :
3909 Centre Street, San Diego, CA 92103
Our mailing address:
P.O. Box 3357 San Diego, CA 92163
Marci Bair - Phone: (619) 692-2077x 121 Fax: (619) 260-3091
mbair@thecentersd.org

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